Recommended reading: ‘Strangers’ by Belle Burden

Strangers by Belle Burden

I really enjoyed this book – take a look and see if you might like it too. Cheers, Jen.

A MOST ANTICIPATED BOOK OF 2026 IN VOGUE, BBC, NEW YORK TIMES, W MAGAZINE, TOWN & COUNTRY

‘A beautifully written eulogy for the loss of a relationship’ Joyce Carol Oates

‘Beautiful… devastating … Strangers reads with all the momentum and colour of water-tight literary fiction’ British Vogue

How do we go on when a loved one betrays us?

Read the newspaper article by Belle Burden that she developed into the book Strangers published in the New York Times Modern Love section titled ‘Was I married to a stranger? I thought I knew my husband of 20 years. I didn’t – and still don’t‘.

On a chilly day in March of 2020, in the early days of the pandemic, Belle Burden’s husband of twenty years announced, with no prior warning, that he was leaving her. His decision shocked Belle to her core- she believed he was a happy man, a committed partner, and a devoted father to their three children. She thought he was a man who had settled into the life he had always wanted- a successful career, summers spent at their beloved home on Martha’s Vineyard, lots of tennis. Overnight, he transformed from her steady companion into a stranger.

As she pieces her life together in the wake of a loss she had never imagined coming, she finds she is much stronger than she ever expected. Exploring the transformation of a shy, quiet girl, nicknamed ‘Belle the Good’ to a powerful, brave, determined woman who has learned to use her voice to expose the patriarchal structures that have forced women to be discreet and compliant for far too long, Strangers is a must-read memoir of self-discovery.

Amazon: Paperback $27.75, Kindle $19.95

Booktopia: Paperback $29.75

Sutherland Library: On order (you can reserve a copy)

You’re welcome to read my copy! 🙂

Recommended reading (Jen)

Highly recommended books

These highly acclaimed books may interest you if you’re looking for a great read. I recently read all five and loved them all. Two are fiction books: Dream State and The Name of the Rose; and three are non-fiction: The Story of a Heart, Careless People, and Memorial Days.

Dream State by Eric Puchner

Cece is in love. She has arrived early at her in-laws’ beautiful lake house in Salish, Montana, to finish planning her wedding to Charlie, a cardiac anaesthesiologist with a brilliant future.

When Charlie asks Garrett, his best friend from college, to officiate the ceremony, Cece can’t imagine anyone less appropriate for the task. After all, Garrett, a depressed baggage handler at the local airport, doesn’t believe in marriage. But as she spends time with him and his gruff mask slips, she grows increasingly uncertain about her future, leading to an impulsive decision that will alter the three friends’ lives forever – the events of that summer reverberating across fifty years and spanning generations.

Simultaneously following in the tradition of the great American novel and reinventing it from within, Dream State is at once an elegy to the endangered West, a study of the unholy catastrophe of marriage and a tender ode to the enduring beauty of friendship.

The Story of a Heart by Rachel Clarke

WINNER OF THE WOMEN’S PRIZE FOR NON-FICTION 2025

SHORTLISTED FOR THE BAILLIE GIFFORD PRIZE FOR NON-FICTION 2024

BOOK OF THE YEAR IN THE SPECTATOR, NEW STATESMAN, NEW SCIENTIST, AND PROSPECT

This is the unforgettable story of how one family’s grief transformed into a lifesaving gift. With tremendous compassion and clarity, Dr Rachel Clarke relates the urgent journey of a young girl’s heart and explores a history of remarkable medical innovations , stretching back over a century and involving the knowledge and dedication not just of surgeons but of countless physicians, immunologists, nurses and scientists.

Careless People by Sarah Wynn-Williams

Shocking and darkly funny, Careless People gives you a front-row seat to the decisions that are shaping our world and the people who make them. Welcome to Facebook.

Sarah Wynn-Williams, a young diplomat from New Zealand, pitched for her dream job. She saw Facebook’s potential and knew it could change the world for the better. But, when she got there and rose to its top ranks, things turned out a little different.

From wild schemes cooked up on private jets to risking prison abroad, Careless People exposes both the personal and political fallout when boundless power and a rotten culture take hold. In a gripping and often absurd narrative, Wynn-Williams rubs shoulders with Mark Zuckerberg, Sheryl Sandberg and world leaders, revealing what really goes on among the global elite – and the consequences this has for all of us.

Candid and entertaining, this is an intimate memoir set amid powerful forces. As all our lives are upended by technology and those who control it, Careless People will change how you see the world.

The Name of the Rose by Umberto Eco

Read the enthralling medieval murder mystery.

The year is 1327. Franciscans in a wealthy Italian abbey are suspected of heresy, and Brother William of Baskerville arrives to investigate. When his delicate mission is suddenly overshadowed by seven bizarre deaths, Brother William turns detective.

William collects evidence, deciphers secret symbols and coded manuscripts, and digs into the eerie labyrinth of the abbey where extraordinary things are happening under the cover of night. A spectacular popular and critical success, The Name of the Rose is not only a narrative of a murder investigation but an astonishing chronicle of the Middle Ages.

‘Whether you’re into Sherlock Holmes, Montaillou, Borges, the nouvelle critique, the Rule of St. Benedict, metaphysics, library design, or The Thing from the Crypt, you’ll love it’ Sunday Times

Memorial Days: A Memoir by Geraldine Brooks

A heartrending and beautiful memoir of sudden loss and a journey toward peace, from the bestselling, Pulitzer Prize-winning author of Horse

Many cultural and religious traditions expect those who are grieving to step away from the world. In contemporary life, we are more often met with red tape and to-do lists. This is exactly what happened to Geraldine Brooks when her partner of more than three decades, Tony Horwitz – just sixty years old and, to her knowledge, vigorous and healthy – collapsed and died on a Washington, DC street.

After spending their early years together in conflict zones as foreign correspondents, and living in Sydney, Geraldine and Tony settled down to raise two boys on Martha’s Vineyard, Massachusetts. The life they built was one of meaningful work, good humour, and tenderness, as they spent their days writing and their evenings cooking family dinners or watching the sun set with friends. But all of this came to an abrupt end when, on the US Memorial Day public holiday of 2019, Geraldine received the phone call we all dread. The demands were immediate and many. Without space to grieve, the sudden loss became a yawning gulf.

Three years later, she booked a flight to remote Flinders Island off the coast of Tasmania with the intention of finally giving herself the time to mourn. In a shack on the island’s pristine, rugged coast she often went days without seeing another person. There, she pondered the various ways in which cultures grieve, and what rituals of her own might help to rebuild a life around the void of Tony’s death.

A spare and profoundly moving memoir that joins the classics of the genre, Memorial Days is a portrait of a larger-than-life man and a timeless love between souls that exquisitely captures the joy, agony and mystery of life.

‘It’s personal, immediate, an opening up. It’s from the heart . . . Geraldine’s gift to us is that she has written her truth’ THE AUSTRALIAN WOMEN’S WEEKLY

‘Heartbreaking yet hopeful. We’re lucky to have Brooks to help us make sense of the world’ WA TODAY

‘Quiet, vulnerable and tender . . . Radically and beautifully open’ SYDNEY MORNING HERALD

Great read: Confederates in the Attic

Most of us enjoyed Horse by Geraldine Brooks, and Confederates in the Attic is an excellent book by her late husband. Although the subject matter can be weighty at times, at heart the book is a fascinating road trip with a journalist’s eye for exposing humanity’s varied motivations with a thoughtful soft touch.  It’s insightful and very humorous. Another of my 2023 Christmas reads. Happy to lend. Jen.

The book’s blurb is:

NATIONAL BESTSELLER • A Pulitzer Prize-winning war correspondent takes us on an explosive adventure into the soul of the unvanquished South, where Civil War reenactors, battlefield visitors, and fans of history resurrect the ghosts of the Lost Cause through ritual and remembrance.  

“The freshest book about divisiveness in America that I have read in some time. This splendid commemoration of the war and its legacy … is an eyes–open, humorously no–nonsense survey of complicated Americans.” —The New York Times Book Review

For all who remain intrigued by the legacy of the Civil War—reenactors, battlefield visitors, Confederate descendants and other Southerners, history fans, students of current racial conflicts, and more—this ten-state adventure is part travelogue, part social commentary and always good-humored. 

When prize-winning war correspondent Tony Horwitz leaves the battlefields of Bosnia and the Middle East for a peaceful corner of the Blue Ridge Mountains, he thinks he’s put war zones behind him. But awakened one morning by the crackle of musket fire, Horwitz starts filing front-line dispatches again this time from a war close to home, and to his own heart.

Propelled by his boyhood passion for the Civil War, Horwitz embarks on a search for places and people still held in thrall by America’s greatest conflict. In Virginia, Horwitz joins a band of ‘hardcore’ reenactors who crash-diet to achieve the hollow-eyed look of starved Confederates; in Kentucky, he witnesses Klan rallies and calls for race war sparked by the killing of a white man who brandishes a rebel flag; at Andersonville, he finds that the prison’s commander, executed as a war criminal, is now exalted as a martyr and hero; and in the book’s climax, Horwitz takes a marathon trek from Antietam to Gettysburg to Appomattox in the company of Robert Lee Hodge, an eccentric pilgrim who dubs their odyssey the ‘Civil Wargasm.’

Written with Horwitz’s signature blend of humor, history, and hard-nosed journalism, Confederates in the Attic brings alive old battlefields and the new ‘classrooms, courts, country bars’ where the past and the present collide, often in explosive ways.

Raynor Winn: Award winning adventures

I came across Winn’s books by chance last Christmas, and they looked interesting. I soon realised they were absolute gems being well written, perceptive, fun, positive, and adventurous. I loved them! Very highly recommended!

Winn’s three books (so far – I hope she writes more) are:

  • The Salt Path
  • The Wild Silence
  • Landlines

If you love travel, wildlife, and the great outdoors you might enjoy these. Happy to lend.

Jen

Find out more about them in these media stories –

The Guardian:

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2020/aug/23/beyond-the-salt-path-it-felt-abnormal-to-live-in-a-village-among-other-people-raynor-winn

Penguin books:

https://www.penguin.co.uk/articles/2021/05/raynor-winn-interview-salt-path-wild-silence-author

 

Author talk: Bonnie Garmus

If you’d like to attend Bonnie Garmus’s author talk during the Sydney Writer’s Festival you’re in luck as there are still tickets.

The information is reproduced below:

Due to overwhelming demand, we are thrilled to announce a second event with Bonnie Garmus next May! Catch Bonnie Garmus on Sunday 26 May at 2pm to hear about her runaway hit Lessons in Chemistry and to chat science, sexism and success in your sixties. Tickets are on sale now and make the perfect holiday gift. Head to our website to book your tickets before they sell out (again)!
Bonnie Garmus: Lessons in Chemistry
Saturday 25 May 2024, 5.30pm SOLD OUT
Sunday 26 May 2024, 2pm ON SALE NOW
Sydney Town Hall
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